Have You Thanked Your Socks Today?

Have You Thanked Your Socks Today?

At this time of year many nurses are wondering how to enter the busy holiday season with more intention and ease. They want to remember the important things about Thanksgiving and bounty and blessings, say, but in the midst of Black Friday madness? Those “gotta get it now” sales can turn anyone’s attention from gratitude to greed. And then the gift-giving holidays kick in, so the focus on materialism becomes even more intense.

Maybe you’ve tried some of the recommended hacks for generating heartfelt warmth, peace, and grace. Oprah popularized one such method, the gratitude journal, when she recommended that viewers write three things they were thankful for each day.

There’s good research to back Oprah but some nurses don’t like to write out their reflections— they want a more active approach. Or they’ve kept a list of three items and it didn’t change how they felt—frazzled, harried, lacking, or just emotionally flat when everyone around seems to be caught up in the spirit of the season.

There are many active and powerful ways to create an awareness (and often the feeling follows) of gratitude which is closely related to compassion. That can be a powerful duo for nurses who may wrestle with compassion fatigue all year long, but feel it especially at the holidays.

The Japanese method of Naikan (translates to “looking within”) provides one. I like to use the end of November through the end of December for this style of structured reflection. It always results in a profound sense of gratitude for blessings that were always there but went unnoticed.

It takes about me 15 to 30 minutes a day to do Naikan, and I get so much out of it that I do it every year.

Daily Naikan practice asks us to examine these three areas of living:

  1. What have I received? [from life, or a certain person, place, or thing.]
  2. What did I give? [same as above—you can time limit it to that day or year or the whole length of employment or relationship, etc.]
  3. What troubles and difficulties did I cause? [ditto]

The first two questions are usually pretty easy to answer and we may be able to go on and on about what we do for others. But slice up your time in uneven sections with 60% of it devoted to the third question. That’s the most difficult one. After all, it’s natural to think that problems are caused by other people while we’re hardly ever responsible for upsets.

Search your conscience for where you missed the mark, even in some small way. Here’s an example of one day’s list:

Troubles and Difficulties I Caused

  • Sent thank you email a week after dinner party
  • Snapped at young, inexperienced nurse
  • Wouldn’t let my youngest use Pinterest
  • Snide tone to husband on phone call
  • Checked my social feeds while at work
  • Ignored my son when he wanted to play
  • Wasted water by letting shower run for 15 minutes

If you want an active reflection that’s a bit off the wall, I like to do something I call Garbage Naikan. Every time that I throw away or recycle an item, like floss and coffee filters and train tickets … I think about the service I got from that thing, what I gave it, and what problems I caused it. This may sound eccentric to Westerners but maybe not now, after Marie Kondo’s Japanese book on tidying up your home became a mega-bestseller. She recommends thanking any object that you toss out while decluttering.

So, you may feel ridiculous, but give it a go. When recycling a sock, say “Thank you sock for your service in keeping my feet warm. I treated you well by gently folding and setting you in my sock drawer. I’m sorry I caused trouble by walking around on hardwoods without slippers and wearing you out before your time.”

Finding creative ways to examine your life using psychological or spiritual methods (like Naikan) will help make you mindful of the overlooked gifts we receive daily.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Year-End Goals Round-Up

Year-End Goals Round-Up

The holiday season has almost started and there are less than two months left in 2018. This is the time of year when we can get reflective because it’s always surprising how quickly time passes. It seems like only yesterday when we were all formulating our New Year’s Resolutions.

Are you gobsmacked by how many items still remain on your 2018 to-do list?

Nurses are go-getters. They know how to get things done at work. But sometimes they aren’t as diligent about attacking their own personal goals and dreams. There’s no need to despair if you’re not where you want to be with your resolutions, personal to-do’s, or life “bucket list” items. It’s only common sense that nurses have the option of approaching these final weeks in a couple of ways.

One: you can drive on cruise control for the final days of 2018, resigned to the fact that you probably won’t be getting much accomplished after all. You may even be in a holiday mental fog, simply looking forward to enjoying time off from work, as health care environments generally slow down during this season.

Two: you can put the pedal to the metal and accelerate to reach your goals in the final stretch of this year. And if you’ve already reached your targets (good on you!), then you will try to get a jump-start on the coming year.

Six weeks.

That’s not much time, but it can be plenty of time to reach many goals. From buying a new winter scarf to applying for an advanced nursing degree, there’s still an opportunity to take action during November and December.

Still, the temptation is there to take it easy and not push yourself during what is already the most hectic and stressful season, with family gatherings and all the emotional drama that entails for many people.

Another common mistake? Looking to the future and dreaming about how wonderful it’s bound to be—without actually doing what’s necessary now to make it happen.

There is no easy way out, though. As motivational speaker Jim Rohn says, “We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.”

So, take a load off of your shoulders.

Right now, pick up your calendar, a notebook, and a pen. Make a list of what you’re aiming to accomplish. Research proves that lists have power. It can help make you more organized and productive when you “think it and ink it.” Perhaps it’s because writing activates so many different parts of the brain so it’s easier to remember what you want to get done.

Some items on your list are bound to be meaningful while others will be mundane. The biggies on most people’s lists regard daily living (“conquer procrastination”), dream jobs (or how not to go bonkers at work), romantic relationships, health and wellness, family and friends, and the pursuit of happiness.

Some goals are a bit of both—for instance “drink only hot water with lemon or cold water with cucumber slices” could make a major impact on your health if it replaces sugary sodas.

In any case, you’ll feel awesome come January 1st when you’re able to cross off (check off?) your action items, and get a head start on some others for next year. That’s so much better than starting 2019 from a dead stop after six weeks of holiday frenzy or winter hibernation.

See you tomorrow.

Movember: Help Change the Face of Men’s Health

Movember: Help Change the Face of Men’s Health

Have you heard about the annual health event called Movember (“Moustache” plus “November”)? Men pledge to grow the facial hair above their upper lips and to get donations from their friends, family, and coworkers to fund efforts to address the men’s health crisis.

In addition to fundraising, the Movember Foundation aims to raise global awareness of male-specific diseases such as prostate and testicular cancer, as well as conditions that often hit men especially hard, such as depression, other mental illnesses, and suicide. Their stated mission is simple: to stop men dying too young.

Since Movember was launched in Australia in 2003, the event has grown into a powerhouse health charity and one of the fastest growing non-government organizations. The founders of Movember were inspired by how women had spearheaded fundraising and research efforts towards finding a cure for breast cancer. They sought to do the same to address male health and longevity disparities, and they have—with good humor and tremendous imagination.

In the last 15 years, the Movember Foundation has invested $200 million in 120 research projects to improve health outcomes for American men. They’ve also funded over 1,200 projects in more than 20 countries, with the financial support of over 5 million men and women.

The Movember Foundation will launch their 50 Million Men campaign in early 2019 to empower 50 million American men to self-manage their health in the next five years. Among other disparities, American women outlive American men by an average of five years.

(Worldwide, health outcomes among men and boys continue to be substantially worse than among girls and women.)

Through free digital resources, trackers, and health promotion initiatives, the organization aims to educate American men about healthy living, and to encourage them to seek preventative care and early treatment.

Movember gives nurses a wonderful opportunity to get involved in the effort to close the gender health gap and ensure that men live long lives, with the support of their peers and families. More healthy men mean healthier communities and ultimately, a healthier world.

November isn’t the only national health observances this month. According to Healthfinder.gov, there are many others. Here are a few that may greatly impact men:

  • Lung Cancer Awareness Month
  • Pancreatic Cancer Awareness Month
  • American Diabetes Month
  • Great American Smokeout (American Cancer Society)
  • National Child Mental Health Month

Though men may have traditionally been more likely to smoke, drink heavily, or eat convenience foods, that may be changing. With increased awareness, men are starting to be more proactive about taking charge of their own health. By educating men about these issues, whether during Movember or the Great American Smokeout, nurses can help to save 50 Million Men.

To learn more, visit www.movember.com.

Self-Care is Not Selfish

Self-Care is Not Selfish

It’s a fact: Nurses are caretakers, but do they take care of themselves? Nope. That’s probably why we see the high numbers of nurses with depression, anxiety, burnout, and fatigue. Ultimately, that leads them to leave the bedside or the nursing profession altogether.

Maybe you’ve been seeing the term “self-care” a lot recently but aren’t totally sure what it means. Basically, it relates to ways to take care of your time, your body, and your health, which is essential if you’re to remain strong enough to take on whatever life throws at you.

It may be especially difficult for nurses to think of “looking after number one” in terms of taking care of yourself. But remember that when you take care of your own needs, your patients will benefit, and ultimately, so will your family and other loved ones.

It’s like what flight attendants say in their airline pre-flight safety speech—“put on your own oxygen mask on before attempting to assist others”—in case of an emergency. The same safety strategy applies to self-care. It takes the most consistent and conscientious acts of kindness to self before you’re rested enough to handle the crushing patient load you sometimes must carry.

What exact type of act constitutes self-care will vary from nurse to nurse. Each individual has to try to wrap his or her mind around this slippery concept, but know that you’re not the only one to struggle with something so seemingly simple. A Swedish massage with warm, scented lotion may stress you out while a sweaty, muddy mountain-bike ride may make you feel positively pampered.

How do you know where to begin your self-care efforts?

Choose an area of life that will make the biggest impact: Weight-bearing exercise, healthy eating, managing stress, getting more shut-eye, connecting to your values and dreams, etc.

Then try to determine what self-care activities would be rewarding as well as pleasurable. Psychologists at the University of Plymouth in England found that there is a “pleasure zone” or life satisfaction we experience when regularly engaging in those activities that combine reward and pleasure.

Here are some common examples which hit the sweet spot: Volunteering, praying, meditating, time with children, cooking, exercising, socializing, reading, Internet use, and outdoor activities.

Compare those items to the two most often-cited activities that are neither pleasurable nor rewarding: Shopping and commuting. (For most of us, these are two of the top time drains, too.)

Unfortunately, it’s usually not possible to radically change your schedule or commitments to pump up self-care—though if you can swing a shift change or house move for a shorter commute, more power to you! For the rest of us, we can get the best results from being creative and exploring simple ways to create positive new routines for a happier, healthier life.

But try not to become frustrated or disappointed with yourself if you sometimes aren’t able to get off the hamster-wheel and achieve some work-life balance. Self-care is all about taking positive and sustainable action and shouldn’t cause you more anxiety or require you to upend your life, either.

Election Day in the Year of Advocacy

Election Day in the Year of Advocacy

As you may know, the American Nurses Association (ANA) designated 2018 as the  “Year of Advocacy.” These past 10 months, they’ve encouraged nurses to influence and bring about change at the bedside and beyond by engaging in “moments of everyday advocacy.”

As Election Day approaches, now is the time to end this year of advocacy on a strong note by demonstrating the political leadership skills that are unique to nursing. Make your voice heard! It will go a long way toward benefiting your local community, the nation, and potentially, the entire global community.

Political advocacy and nursing are not mutually exclusive, and every day nurses influence elected officials at the local, state, and federal level. The ANA encourages nurses to stand shoulder to shoulder to defend health care and make a difference on these significant policy issues:

  • Set safe staffing levels to save patient lives and reduce nurse attrition at the bedside.
  • Support nursing education and specifically, funding for Title V11.
  • End the gun violence and restore CDC research on how to stop this epidemic.
  • Stop physical and verbal abuse of nurses in all health care settings. Every employee deserves a safe workplace.

Here’s what you, as an individual, can do to make an impact:

Vote! And help get out the vote by encouraging friends, family, and coworkers to do the same. Some clinics have even conducted nonpartisan voter registration drives and reminded patients to cast a ballot. The volunteer providers who run the drives compare helping patients with voter registration to assisting them get insurance coverage.

In addition, write, email, or call national lawmakers and your local representatives to express your views. Or tweet them out. Best of all, show up in person at town halls, congressional meetings, or even on Capitol Hill. Political marches are also effective in persuading lawmakers—elected officials want to keep their constituents happy, and nurses make up a noteworthy voting block.

Sign up for the ANA’s text alerts so that you’re kept in the loop on what’s happening in Washington. You’ll be ready to respond to any pertinent policy developments with this news and information update service.

You might be asking: Can nurses really make a difference in the political process?

This answer is a resounding “Yes!” Governmental representatives and policymakers do value the unique expertise that nurses bring as health care professionals and patient advocates.

In annual opinion polls, nursing almost always rates as the most trusted profession among the general public. That esteem goes a long way toward encouraging decision makers to listen when nurses talk and to take what they say seriously.

Who knows, maybe you’ll decide to run for an elected office yourself or to accept an appointed position. There’s been a groundswell of grassroots political involvement and women and minorities running for office recently, and the field is wide open for new voices.

Regardless of your political party affiliation and where you stand on certain issues, most likely you’re in agreement with other nurses on these challenges to our nation. We all want to protect health care benefits for all (and especially vulnerable populations), cut health care costs and administrative expenses, reduce excessive prescription drug costs, and completely eliminate fraud, waste, and abuse.

Make your voice heard! Get involved at the local, state, or federal level to support or oppose proposed legislation that could affect health care. Advocate for nurses and patients everywhere as a political block through your union, your specialty nursing association, or ANA.

By becoming a nursing champion, you can influence lawmakers to become health care champions that strive to meet the pressing medical needs of our patients and health care staff.

For advocacy tools, visit the ANA website.

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